In Origin of the Species, in Chapter 6, in the paragraph immediately before the summary, Charles Darwin wrote:

“It may be difficult, but we ought to admire the savage instinctive hatred of the queen-bee, which urges her instantly to destroy the young queens her daughters as soon as born, or to perish herself in the combat; for undoubtedly this is for the good of the community; and maternal love or maternal hatred, though the latter fortunately is most rare, is all the same to the inexorable principle of natural selection.”

It is not just difficult; it is impossible. I don’t want to admire “savage instinctive hatred” or to see its justification in the “good of the community.” I refuse.

If maternal love and maternal hatred are “all the same” to the principle upon which life is founded and organized, then the universe is a horrible place to live.